Which is worst, to have a warning that you are about to lose someone, or just lose them with no warning. Some say a warning is better, time to say goodbye. Others just feel that it is torture, and a waiting game that no one signed up to play.
What about the order in which we lose people? For example. We think it is hard to lose our parents, but what about if they had to bury us? Imagine that pain, an unnatural pain that God did not have in his plans for us. Wouldnt that be worse? To have to watch your parents suffer from up above?
Just lost my aunt today, asked how my dad was. He said that its better to lose people, instead of sit around waiting on them to go, and watching them suffer.
I guess thats the upside to death. Whats you opinion on it?