Sometimes we can begin those we feel we need for help, and get nothing in return. Sometimes we spend years trying to deal with feelings that they don’t care to deal with. Sometimes you just grow when they don’t.
That’s not your fault. You can not stunt your growth for them. It will only hurt you in the end. You can not try to save them as you grow, you will simply pull there roots out the ground as you rise.
Sometimes you can not save others anymore, you are left with no choice other than focusing on you and you alone. Sometimes all you want is them, but you can’t have what you want. You must go get what you need.
Don’t continue to put others before you. Remember there is a balance in helping yourself and others at the same time. You have to know when you can do one, and when you must do the other.